Everyone Is Different

September 27, 2017

The title of this blog seems simple. Why, because we are all different but really the same. We all have a heart, blood, brain, skin and so on. How we all walk through life is where the difference is. I’m a preparer every step of my day, week and month is planned out and prepared for way ahead of time. It’s how I roll and nothing will do until I have organized every last moment of my plan. It can drive some a bit crazy, mainly my family. Greg would once like to go on a trip without it being all planned out from sun up to sun down. Maybe when we are 90ish I’ll let it all go.

I know and see people daily that just threw caution to the wind. They walk out of their door, into the office or classroom with no plan other than a topic to roll with. I cringe to think of running life that way. I mean really what is wrong with you people. The answer to that question is there isn’t anything wrong with that way either. Not everyone needs that kind of over the top planning. I’ve decided my way isn’t wrong either. For me life is better well planned out with nothing out-of-place. I’m an all or nothing kinda person, maybe that is why this journey the past 5 years has gone the way it has. I’m mean there where bumps but nothing seem to get me off track. I’m an over focused, walk the line person. My dear sweet husband drives me crazy with his job travel. I’ll say on Sunday evening what time is your flight in the morning. He responds with “I have no idea I’ll look before I go to bed” WHAT!!! Shouldn’t you know before then? What about packing, what’s the weather like there, do you need to get up early and why are you so calm. That is the way he rolls out. For Greg everyday one moment to the next rushing to get things in order.  It works for him he is really good at his job and he never misses a beat or flight.



My life is so different, from the food I eat each week to planning trips to do things after school it’s all on paper in a list.  I prep my food in bowls so they are easy to grab and there is no thinking about breakfast, lunch or dinner.  When I work on a piece I make sure I have a plan to prep the piece.  When it comes to the art part of each piece that is the only thing that I free style without a plan.  I allow my creativity to flow without limits or planning.  It’s the only time I get to go all crazy and wild.  My point is we all are different in so many ways and need to except each other for what and who we are.  My daughter is an under pressure kinda girl, my son slow an easy with no stress but Greg is a carefree soul with out a care in the world and it always works out for him.  No matter how you work your life work it to make you the happiest.  Every once in a awhile you could step out of your box and let things get a little crazy.  I feels good to color outside the box sometimes.  Think about it what is your crazy? Decided and don’t let anyone change you special crazy and life plan. Best advice love your crazy. 

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