Please Don’t Judge Me

December 31, 2015

So here we are the very last day of 2015. There are no do overs, no credits and no take backs. Whats done is done. If you look back over the past year was it all you wanted and could it have been more? We could all make list of what we wished would have been different and another list of all our blessings. Really if you give it thought it was all a blessing in some way or another the good and bad. I’m not going to make any new year resolutions just a new plan to make 2016 better and more fulfilled. I’m going to share with you my plan, its gonna be honest and some might say T.M.I. Here we go!

-Up first is my walk with Christ. I need to work on that with more time in prayer, more time in worship and more time in his word. I’ll never be perfect but I can strive to walk the walk.

-My relationship with my husband is next on my list. Although we have an amazing relationship we need to continue to grow and love each other. I need more dinners with him, more movie time and way more cuddle time. He is an amazing part of my life and we have grown up together. We need to grow and flourish with many years of life together.

-Oh my, next my children I need to let them grow and step back and let that happen. They both are doing amazing jobs with their lives but I seem to hover a bit over head. Yikes that one is hard to admit.

-My health plan is on track but needs a few adjustments. I need to get better at writing every thing down that goes in my mouth. I need to track my food and that means everything. I’m going to commit to 5:30 AM workouts to get more weights in. OMGolly that one will kick my butt.

-I have a few people I want to apologies to. Yep I know, in my past I have done and said somethings that have hurt people and this year I want to make that right by giving them the gift of “I’m sorry”. That will not be a part of my blog because it needs to be private.

-Always I strive to organize and reorganize my home, work and life. That’s always ongoing and my obsession.

I don’t like calling these resolutions because resolutions are meant to be broken. These are plans to make my year bigger and better than 2015. If you break your resolution it is like breaking a promise to yourself. That is hard for us as humans to deal with. I’m striving to make this year the year that changes my life, do things that I have dreamed about for years and make Blue Happy Living all that I’ve dreamed of and know it can be. What is your dream? Why can’t it be your reality this year or at least give it life to grow. What if you wrote the first page of your book, started painting or even started that new business. Age, money and place in life has nothing to do with dreams and bringing them to life. Make a plan, get up and act on it. I hope that the last day of 2015 is not spent in regret. What ever happened or didn’t happen it’s over. Crying over it is wasted time you could be building a new plan for 2016. God has given us a new year to look forward to and we should praise Him with giving it all that we have. My hope is for your new year to be blessed, that you look past what is spent and look forward to the credit of new days ahead. May you have a very Blue Happy New Years Eve!

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